My MeMe’s Tables
This is proof positive that a little bit of T-Byrd has rubbed off on me. Now that I am getting older I am beginning to have to buy furniture. Until a few years ago, I relied solely on hand-me-downs. Whether it was my uncles mattress, my mom’s couches, grandmother’s spare bedroom chest of drawers, etc. My entire place was furnished by crap other people no longer wanted. Don’t get me wrong, I am grateful for their generosity. It’s just, now I am 32 and bit by bit i am stocking my place with my own stuff. Here’s where I go T-Byrd on you.
Every single peice of furniture that was given to me, I have either donated or thrown away. Except for one. My MeMe’s coffee table set. MeMe was my great-grandmother. She is possibly the one person that loved me more than, well, me… She died back in 2000 or 2001 at 94 years. Well, she had these wierd tables in her formal living room. They were one of a kind and you wont find another set like them. Only thing is, THEY ARE UGGO. So, I wanted them. They are these little Persian looking dudes sitting down holding up the glass top with their head and hands. I displayed them for years, but now they are just in the way.
I just cant bring myself to throw them out. Only because they were MeMe’s? I haven’t ever thought twice about chucking other crap. These, in a way, are more than “just tables” which I would have said before I met Terry. She is making me soft, I think.
Just curious if anyone has ever had to toss something with sentimental value. I don’t want to, but I think it is time.
Just for giggles, I posted a pic of one of the end tables. This is 1 part of set of 3. 2 end tables and a coffee table.
June 6th, 2008 at 9:56 am
I have shoelaces that belonged to my uncle. I will never throw them out. I just won’t do it. I plan to some day have them put into my wedding dress. You keep those tables as long as you want!
June 9th, 2008 at 12:42 pm
I know just how you feel. My aunt gave me some hideous looking trinkets (a candy dish, vase and 2 other pieces). They were given to my grandparents on their 50th anniversary. I have them proudly displayed on my dresser (where virtually nobody can see them, but me). My grandparents died when I was only 7, but I still have fond memories of them. All I have left to remember them by are these trinkets. I don’t care how ugly they might be. I won’t part with them.
June 12th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
those tables are not that ugly. They are actually kind of neat. I wouldn’t be able to toss them if they have sentimental value. I would use them.
June 12th, 2008 at 5:51 pm
HI Newman, I know you love Meme. But you need to remember that just because Meme like it, doesn’t mean you have to!
Yep, put it on ebay, you may make a bundle!
Karen
June 12th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
You should have them appraised by a reputable antique dealer…. lol… better.. you need to get on “Antique Road Show”. I have a feeling that you would be quite surprised at how much the trio would be worth… my guess is quite a bit.
June 14th, 2008 at 5:55 pm
it’s always good to keep something of the past around,especially if the tables serve as
another reminder of MeMe.I personally wouldnt ever get rid of something of sentimental value.Put it to good use or keep it somewhere safe.It’s your choice,good luck!!
June 16th, 2008 at 8:54 am
Newman,
Take this picture, buy a frame and hang it, then you can sell it. The important thing is not the table, it is the memory of MeMe. You could make a collage and put the other ‘artifacts’ there as well.
June 16th, 2008 at 11:01 am
Newman,
Take this picture, buy a frame and hang it, then you can sell the table. The important thing is not the table, it is the memory of MeMe. You could make a collage and put the other ‘artifacts’ there as well.
June 16th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Newman,
I too have been faced with your dilema. My Mom died 10yrs ago and I got everything pretty much. I didn’t want to part with anything and tried to cram everything into my house to use. Over the years I’ve looked at stuff and asked myself, “What was I thinking? That needs to go!” And out it went. Alot of things I sold in a garage sale. One year my husband and I made $1700.00. It paid for a vacation for the 2 of us. It was nice. So, like the guy Rich that said take a picture and frame it on out it in a photo album, do that and then sell them. They served your purpose and now it time for you to add your own flair. Good Luck!
June 17th, 2008 at 8:30 am
I totally agree with Rich! It’s the memory of her that is more important. Your still gonna have the memories even if you don’t have the tables. Sell the hideous things!! lol
June 18th, 2008 at 10:12 am
Looks Egyptian or something probably is worth something. I imagine they’re priceless to you though!
June 24th, 2008 at 12:43 pm
Mr. Newman I have two words and one symbol for you ……. ANTIQUES ROADSHOW = $$$$$$$$$
June 30th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
Hi Jeremy;
Kristy said “it’s always good to keep something from the past around”—I guess that’s why the BMCC has Terry; lol–don’t tell her I said that.
Seriously; You should keep a little of the past always around–that way when your sister’s little guy grows up; you’ll have crap (I mean stuff) to pass on to him. maybe someday you’ll even have some kids who will love to hear about the past and who gave the items to you.
have a great day; Chuck
July 6th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
Dearest Jeremy,
I reckon that you should hang on to them. I believe that if you were to get ride of them that one day, you may regret your choice to part with them. Like you said yourself, she loved you more than ever.. and the mere fact that these were hers and she loved them, means you should hold on to them. I know that they are material possesions and no, you cannot take them with you. But they have a lot of life left! Ps. they’re super duper cool!